I am passionate about helping people create the life they want. I was born into a high control patriarchal cult. By the time I left, my self-image was completely shot. I didn't trust myself. I didn't think I was capable of anything worthwhile. I was taught to put everyone else ahead of myself which only reinforced my belief that I was invisible. I've spent the last 10 years removing the burden of spiritual and emotional abuse to find the person I was always meant to be.
I started my journey as a massage therapist. I worked hard to heal people of their physical ailments, but I noticed most people came back with the same issues because they weren't dealing with the stressors in their lives.
So, I became a Reiki and Qigong Master. Although these modalities helped relieve me of a lifetime of collected cult nightmares and toxic energy, I still saw limitations because they required long-term commitment and faith to see real benefit.
I found talking to people and coaching them through their problems was more interesting than bodywork alone. I realized that the most effective way to heal someone was to start from the inside out. Massage and energetic healing are essential parts of any growth process, but I prefer helping people unravel the blockage in their narratives and see a different perspective.
I've spent the last decade working with Myers-Briggs and helping people understand themselves through the lens of cognitive functions and mental wiring.
Generational Theory and Spiral Dynamics helped me see the social constructs that lie behind our differences and how we can learn empathy by acknowledging those differences.
These tools helped me see the value of self-awareness in transcending limiting beliefs and making the world adapt to our strengths.
Human Design and Astrology helped fill in the holes of my toolbox. I still hadn't transcended the limiting beliefs that I was fundamentally flawed and inferior. These two systems showed me that I was the one in control of my destiny and they empowered me to own my trajectory. They changed my life.
After leaving my faith, the first tool I picked up was Tarot. It has been monumental in helping me gain a different perspective on my life and the parts of myself that were too close to comprehend. Tarot helped me tap into my subconscious fears, motivations, and blind spots. On more than one occasion, my Tarot deck has shown me how I contribute to the pain in my life.